I find that the technical instructions of Chanmyay Satipatthana follow me into the sit, creating a strange friction between the theory of mindfulness and the raw, messy reality of my experience. It is just past 2 a.m., and there is a sharpness to the floor that I didn't anticipate. I've wrapped a blanket around myself to ward off that deep, midnight cold that settles in when the body remains motionless. My neck is tight; I move it, hear a small crack, and then immediately feel a surge of doubt about the "correctness" of that movement. The self-criticism is more irritating than the physical discomfort.
The looping Echo of "Simple" Instructions
Chanmyay Satipatthana explanations keep looping in my mind like half-remembered instructions. Observe this. Know that. Be clear. Be continuous. Simple words that somehow feel complicated the moment I try to apply them without a teacher sitting three meters away. Without a teacher to anchor the method, the explanations feel slippery, leaving my mind to spiral into second-guessing.
I notice my breath. Or I think I do. It feels shallow, uneven, like it doesn’t want to cooperate. I feel a constriction in my chest and apply a label—"tightness"—only to immediately doubt the timing and quality of that noting. I am caught in a familiar loop of self-audit, driven by the memory of how exact the noting is meant to be. The demand for accuracy becomes a heavy burden when there is no teacher to offer a reality check.
Knowledge Evaporates When the Body Speaks
My thigh is aching in a steady, unyielding way. I attempt to maintain bare awareness of it. My thoughts repeatedly wander to spiritual clichés: "direct knowing," "bare attention," "dropping the narrative." I laugh quietly because even that laughter turns into something to watch. Sound. Vibration. Pleasant? Neutral? Who knows. It disappears before I decide.
I spent some time earlier reviewing my notes on the practice, which gave me a false sense of mastery. Now that I am actually sitting, my "knowledge" is useless. The body's pain is louder than the books. My aching joints drown out the scriptures. I crave proof that this discomfort is "progress," but I am left with only the ache.
The Heavy Refusal to Comfort
My shoulders creep up again. I drop them. They come back. The breath stutters. I feel irritation rising for no clear reason. I recognize it. Then I recognize recognizing it. Eventually, the act of "recognizing" feels like an exhausting chore. This is where Chanmyay explanations feel both helpful and heavy. They don’t comfort. They don’t say it’s okay. They just point back to what’s happening, again and again.
There’s a mosquito whining somewhere near my ear. I wait. I don’t move. I wait a little longer than usual. Then I swat. Annoyance. Relief. A flash of guilt. All of it comes and goes fast. I don’t keep up. I never keep up. That realization lands quietly, without drama.
Experience Isn't Neat
The diagrams make the practice look organized: body, feelings, mind, and dhammas. Actual reality, however, is messy and refuses to get more info stay in its boxes. Sensation bleeds into emotion. Thought hides inside bodily tension. I try to just feel without the "story," but my mind is a professional narrator and refuses to quit.
I glance at the clock even though I promised myself I wouldn’t. 2:12. Time is indifferent to my struggle. The sensation in my leg changes its character. I am annoyed that the pain won't stay still. I wanted it to be a reliable target for my mindfulness. The reality of the sensation doesn't read the books; it just keeps shifting.
The technical thoughts eventually subside, driven out by the sheer intensity of the somatic data. I am left with only raw input: the heat of my skin, the pressure of the floor, the air at my nostrils. Then I drift. Then I come back. No clarity. No summary.
I don’t feel like I understand anything better tonight. I am suspended between the "memory" of how to practice and the "act" of actually practicing. sitting in this unfinished mess, letting it be messy, because that’s what’s happening whether I approve of it or not.